I would like to give pidgin a try, but I don't like the default theme for the list, there is too much space between the contacts, I would like to style it in a more minimal way so i can see more contacts in less space. Despite my (not so thorough searches) I didn't find any theme specically for my list, I found for the icons and the sounds ... any proposals?
There are several plugins which can be used to improve the buddies list, which includes but not limits to:
Buddy list options: included in the Plugin pack
And you can find more plugins in the Pidgin's official plugin site.
My buddy list have changed since it was originally installed and now it looks like this:
Well, probably not fully improved but better than the original.
Isn't pidgin built on GTK+ ?
if so, you can use GTK themes to change things like font face & size and the interface elements. Something like the Clearlooks Compact theme will make the interface a little smaller so give you more room for the actual information. http://art.gnome.org/themes
Though as already mentioned, best is to use the specific buddy list plugins and disable buddy info to make a more dense list.