So when I try to remote in via TightVNC I just get a black screen, the port was open and after some troubleshooting I figured it had to be that screen sharing was disabled in preferences. That's fine, but the only ways I could fine to enable it are via the GUI. It is a headless unit however, and I have no way to hook it up to a screen. I am able to SSH into but that limits me to the terminal and I'd like full remote desktop control. When using 'gsettings set org.gnome.Vino enabled true' I get "enabled key not found" or something along those lines. I'm at a loss here, any and all help is appreciated, thanks!
vncserver :0 -geometry 1440x900
on the server side. It's what I use. Then on the client side I use Remmina and set to VNC.