I used the default Lubuntu LXDE theme (not sure that's even the right word -- the look, feel, panel position and options, etc.?) then recently changed it with gnome-tweaks to a different GTK3 theme that solved some issues.
The problem is that my VNC session always still brings up the old LXDE theme and I'd like them to match.
So is there a way for my VNC .vnc/xstartup file to pull whatever info it needs from the file the desktop uses? (I don't know if that's xinitrc or something else?)
I've trie a few different things to replace what I think is the offending line in my .vnc/xstartup:
/usr/bin/lxsession -s Lubuntu -e LXDE &
I replaced with
unset SESSION_MANAGER exec /etc/X11/xinit/xinitrc
And it provided me with a new environment, a teal background, and a cute rat in the wallpaper, but that's not what I was looking for. Any hints on what to actually use?
Thank you in advance for any help!