From what I have seen, they look absolutely similar and their functionality are pretty much the same.
See the attached image:

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Gnote is a port of Tomboy to C++. Pros: Faster, smaller memory footprint. You can read about the author's motives here.
Tomboy is not going to be installed by default in Ubuntu 12.04 - I suppose Gnote may take its place some day. |
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