I am trying to extend the disk on a Ubuntu server running as a vmware esxi guest. I have extended the disk in the settings of the guest in esx. How do I go about extending the disk to allow more free space for the os/user data? I have been searching for the answer on this and have read many posts, but none seem to address my actual needs. I am pretty new to linux/ubuntu but am catching on, so please dont beat me up too badly here. Thanks.
If you are willing to risk your live data, you can edit the partition table online with fdisk. However, as you have more than one partition, you need to first delete your second partition to get it out of the way. Once this is done, you can resize the original partition, reboot, resize the filesystem, reboot again, and then have more space. A quick example would look like this (everything must be done as root, use sudo -i to get a root terminal):
Step 0: BACK UP ALL YOUR DATA. This is very risky. If you don't know what you're doing you will probably destroy all your data. Continue at your own risk.
Step 1: unmount your second partition, which appears to be just swap
Step 2: Modify the partition table, deleting the swap and extended partition
Step 3: Find which block your first partition starts on, this needs to be exact
Output looks like:
Step 4: Delete and recreate your primary partition
Step 5: Recreate your swap partition
Step 6: Reboot. Your server might not come back online. You may have ruined everything. This is why you took that backup.
Step 7: Resize the filesystem. For ext2/3/4, use resize2fs.
Step 8: Reboot again.
After the last reboot, you should have all the space you added. You will need to edit your fstab to update the UUID on the swap partition.
I don't know about vmware specifically, but the general technique probably is the same as when you get a new, bigger hard disk and transfer your old disk's image to it. What you need to do is "grow" the partition and the filesystem to fill up the new, larger physical (or in your case, virtual, but it's still the same from Ubuntu's point of view).
The bad news is that in order to resize the filesystem, it cannot be mounted; meaning it cannot resize "itself". The good news is that it's easy to do with a Ubuntu desktop ISO. Just set vmware up so that it boots from a recent Ubuntu desktop ISO image. When it prompts you, ask to "try Ubuntu". When it boots up, look for "gparted", which is a graphical partition manager. You can ask it to enlarge the partition to fit all available device space.
See here for a nice tutorial with lots of detail: